When I look back on the summer before heading away to college, I recall experiencing a wide array of emotions. I was excited, afraid, sad, and nervous all at once. As an 18 year old, it was the biggest change I’d ever had to experience (outside of becoming a big sister at age 6 – but I had no say in that one). My first week away at school, I cried myself to sleep in my bottom bunk bed, nicely tucked in my new & crisp XL twin sheets. I’d never been away from home for so long, away from my parents, and my friends I’d known my entire life. I had NO idea what I was in for. If I had known, I would have gotten my sulking, self-pitying butt out of bed and started to experience the beginning of what would be the best four years of my life. What would I tell my 18 yr. old, college-bound, self if I could?
My anxiety has been at an all time high these last few weeks. Not only do I have to move out of my place in the next 7-10 days, but I also have a LONG vacation coming up at the end of August (hellloooo Greece). Clearly not an ideal situation, but hey…things happen.
I’ve moved quite a few times in the last 10 years (7 times to be exact). At this point, I’m confident enough to say that I’m an above-average packer. I pack quickly and always manage to know where everything is at all times. Sure, packing properly can be considered “common sense”, but I can attest that I did not have common sense at age 19. Probably little to none, actually. I’ve picked up on some solid packing rules in recent years, and seeing these through this time around has really helped keep me focused this last week! For those of you moving in the near future, including you college go-ers (ugh…I envy you…hard), hopefully these tips help de-stress your move at least a little.
I try to go through my closet at least twice a year to keep it fresh & organized. I hate clutter, and when my drawers start piling up, I know it’s time to clean out. Usually, I go through everything I own (from clothing, shoes, accessories & bags) in the early summer and before the winter months. This year, I’m going through a major clean-out as I’m moving for the first time in 3 years. As you can imagine, I’ve got loads of nonsense stashed away in every crevice of my one bedroom apartment. A whole lot can accumulate in a 3 year period…let me tell you.
As I sort through all my things, I abide (is it odd that every time I use this word I think “the dude abides“?) by a few rules I’ve set for myself. These rules were put in place after a few years of frequent moving…yeah, 8 times in 8 years – doesn’t that sound like so much fun?! I hung on to items from late high school & early college WAY too long, and realized I needed to have a set of “closet cleaning rules” to reference to keep me in check.
I took part in a workshop this week that really opened my eyes to the lack of gender diversity in corporate leadership today. Though women make up over half of entry level jobs, they only account for ~15% of C-suite executives. 15%!! This makes no sense given studies have shown that companies with more women in the C-suite are more profitable. What happens to all of those women as they climb up the corporate ladder? Well, many of them choose not to for personal reasons, but there are plenty of women out there who want to move up and just aren’t given the opportunity. Many companies are striving to address this issue, but as women, there are ways we can “stretch” out of our comfort zones and take ownership of our careers.
Around this time last year, I took the trip of a lifetime with my mom. We hiked the Inca Trail to Machu Picchu, camping for 3 nights in the wilderness (I should add this was my first camping trip EVER). With Mother’s Day around the corner I couldn’t help but reminisce on this unforgettable trip we took together.
We’re all guilty of letting life distractions get in the way of family time (and if you’ve solved this problem, please fill me in on your secret!). Although I’m lucky enough to have my parents nearby, I still feel like I could be spending more time with them. And let me tell you…the older you get, the more difficult it is. Knowing how rare it is to get uninterrupted Mom time, this trip we took together last year will always have a special place in my heart.
Take this weekend to spend quality time (and I mean “no devices” quality time) with Mom and let her know how much you appreciate her. Don’t just get her a gift, give her your time. Our Moms gave us 18+ years of their undivided attention – I think we owe it to them!
For those of you struggling to find the perfect gift, check out last year’s Mother’s Day Gift Guide.
Leo and I have been house hunting the last few months (oh yeah, big steps!), and we’ve learned so much throughout the entire process…and still continue to. House hunting can be draining and time consuming, and we’re doing everything we can to ensure we aren’t wasting our time & energy on homes that we know won’t work for us. Luckily, nowadays there are tools out there that make the entire process a little bit easier and accessible. We’ve been using RedFin, and love love love it. It gives you access to all MLS listings in real time, without having to go through an agent. It’s also a great first step if you’re considering buying and want to get a feel for what’s out there.
As we had to learn some things the hard way, I wanted to share a few tips & tricks we’ve picked up along our house hunting journey. We haven’t found the perfect place just yet, but we’re getting closer & closer!
Annnnddd Valentine’s Day is just around the corner! Are you scrambling to find a dinner reservation for two? Dreading heading to your favorite restaurant and being one of 20+ couples there? I’m sorry to be a downer, but sometimes I just can’t deal with the cheesiness that comes along with this holiday (and thankfully Leo’s on the same page). However, I do think it is a nice excuse to spend time with your significant other. So, how do you get around the cheesiness? Plan a date that’s out of the norm. Valentine’s Day is the perfect holiday to step out of your comfort zone and take date night to the next level. Stop scanning for the next reservation on OpenTable, and give one of these unconventional date ideas a chance. You can thank me later.
I was born and raised in Chicago, but that doesn’t mean these brutal winter months don’t impact me. If you talk to Leo (my bf), he’ll tell you that I wake up every morning, check the weather, and start complaining & sulking, asking that we move to a warmer climate (LA, I’m coming for you). That’s me from December-April. Some days are worse than others – there are times when a brisk morning feels right, and others when every gust of wind makes me want to curl up in bed and never come out again.
Summer in Chicago is so unbelievable that once it rolls around, I forget about the days that I couldn’t feel my feet after walking outside for 5 minutes, or the times I had to shovel my car out from the previous night’s snowstorm. The key is getting through the winter. Make the most of every day, even if the weather is against you. Here are a few things I do (I like to call it my get-through-the-winter strategy) to make the most of the winter months.
Oh, you have 342342134 emails you haven’t read, too? You’re not the only one. The average person receives around 100 emails per day. That can go from manageable to out of control really quick. This may sound a bit extreme, but I truly believe that people who are able to stay on top of email tend to be better at their jobs and more organized overall. If someone is struggling to keep up with their messages, they’re usually missing deadlines, not up to speed on what’s going on, and always behind (which leads to stress & anxiety). I’ve worked with people like this, and believe me, it’s incredibly frustrating. Don’t be one of those people. I’ve found that after a few years of working in the real world, I’ve learned some tips & tricks that have helped me better manage my inbox.
It’s the beginning of a brand NEW YEAR! A new year means opportunity to start fresh and challenge ourselves to do things we haven’t had the willpower to do previously. Many of us start off the year with some ambitious personal goals, yet sadly, many of those goals are abandoned a few months later. Did you know that only 8% of people succeed in achieving their New Year’s resolutions? We can do better than that, guys!
There are a few simple things you can do to help keep you on track. Here are 5 tips that have helped me succeed in the past: